After all, you're basically a regular guy who behaves like any other regular guy. But, deep inside, you deal with strong feelings of real warmth genuine affection for other guys too.
You've seen the media's take on the "gay" community; & not only do you N0T relate to that image, but you find many of the practices repulsive to your basic value system.
My response tends to go along these lines: So let me get this right: You want to start dating but you don’t want it to progress into a committed relationship because you like your life too much / you’re emotionally unavailable and basically not over your ex or your past / you’re busier than a president or prime minister / you have difficulty trusting people / you need to get laid / you basically don’t like your own company so are looking for somebody else to give you special, my reticence about being emotionally available and committing will disappear”.
There’s nothing wrong with not wanting a relationship.
Although neither existed in Greece during the time-frames of these epics; -Movies like "Birdcage" & "Brokeback", combined with the decadence showcased at annual "pride-parades" ...
This group was created after examining a number of statistics gleaned from the main goys site & the affiliated groups.
There is a growing group of men who are 40ish & have made strong identification with the g0ys movement. Please try to stay within a 7-year window membership age-range: (33-56)There's a joke ...
Maybe you're interested in forming a g0ys group of your own.
Some guys do this to serve local interests of g0ys in their area, & others do it because they feel pulled to serve a particular demographic of the population - sometimes with some minor ideological distinctions to the primary g0ys group.